“It takes a few years to grow it out,” Chris Healy tells me on a call. “Once you have long hair, it’s a part of your identity.”

As the longtime owner of a gorgeous mane, Healy has navigated the pitfalls of that identity. “Up ‘til now you’d have to go to the women’s haircare aisle to find hair ties and other products,” he explains. “It’s a little bit embarrassing. You’re trying to hide the hair ties in the shopping basket with an oil can and a football. It’s an awkward, uncomfortable experience because they’re all really made for women. So we set out to create not just a product, but a community.”

That community is The Longhairs, which Healy, 35, and cofounder Lindsay Barto, 31, started in December 2014. The two have their own digital marketing agency called Round Two Creative Group. A few years ago, they hit on the idea for a new business, which they would call Hair Ties for Guys. Both were in the process of growing out their hair at the time and realizing the trials and tribulations that went along with that. They conceived of and wrote up a commercial before they even had any products to sell.

Since they had no product for which they needed a commercial, they decided to launch a website first, with four blog posts and an inaugural holiday party called “Long Manes and Candy Canes” to celebrate. “Our audience has grown considerably. It started with two, which is both of our moms,” Healy says. The Longhairs now gets more than 22,000 unique visitors per month, and it has a robust email list and a YouTube channel with almost 12,000 subscribers. On the site, Healy and Barto go by the handles El Rubio (the blonde) and El Moreno (the brunette).

Healy, who lives in San Diego, is a bit of an evangelist on the subject of men with long hair. He speaks and writes about the subject with sweeping grandiosity, and while some of his lines are delivered with a smile in his voice, I immediately get the feeling that he’s dead earnest about his topic. “We’re just two guys who really fricking believe in this idea,” Healy says. “If we had to say something about our brand, I’d say it’s genuine.”

First and foremost, The Longhairs is about bonding. Healy and Barto even had cards made up for longhairs to hand out to other similarly-coiffed men they encounter in the wild. On one post entitled “When You See Other Longhairs,” El Rubio suggests giving him a knowing nod and “if you have the means, give him the homie hookup: a discount off his bar tab, free parking, the VIP connection, inside information, the local rate, extra hot sauce, a free beer. Hook a longhair up.”

Education is also an important part of what The Longhairs does. “Women grow up and are indoctrinated into this culture of knowing how to deal with and handle long hair. They’re brushing and braiding each other’s hair at recess and learning as part of their culture,” Healy says. “Most guys are growing it out for the first time as an adult and just don’t know what to do.” So tutorials are a huge part of the site and YouTube channel. The Longhairs’ most-viewed video is called “How to Tie Your Hair – For Men” and has over 180,000 views.

The question Healy gets asked the most is about “the awkward stage.” This is, of course, that period of time, which Healy estimates is about 12 to 18 months long, where one grows out short hair into long hair, thus becoming a Longhair. If you Google “awkward stage hair,” a Longhairs post is the first hit. Healy says it garners thousands of new readers every month. “Parting it can be risky, but worth a shot. You can comb it forward and straight down, but you might look like Lloyd Christmas,” writes El Rubio. “The safest bet is simply going with a ‘messy look.’ It shows you’re not trying too hard, that this is intentional.” The inspirational conclusion: “So be proud. Claim it and rock the shit out of it. Power through the awkward stage with courage and commitment. The Longhairs are waiting for you on the other side.”

Verbiage is important in The Longhairs’ world. Consistent with what we discovered writing about male grooming brands, there’s a certain hyper-masculinity and red-blooded (heterosexual) maleness inherent in the lingo. Flow used as a noun — as in “that dude has an epic flow” — is pretty common. (There’s a small subreddit community, unrelated to The Longhairs, dedicated to men with long hair called “Fierce Flow,” which features a lion with a lush mane as a logo.)

“The flow, the long locks, your glorious mane — there’s a lot of lingo around the whole thing, probably because up until now it has been a topic that had more traditionally feminine lingo,” says Healy. “We use terms like ‘let it ride,’ ‘hair whips and high fives,’ ‘robust head of lettuce.’ It’s just fun. We’re making long hair cool again.”

And don’t even think about calling a man bun a man bun. “You can’t be, like, walking down the street with all your homies and say, ‘Hang on a second guys, I’ve gotta tie my man bun.’ It’s shameful and embarrassing,” laughs Healy. “That is a term that a woman would use to describe a man’s hairstyle. We’re like, ‘Dude, we’re not calling it that.’ That is a men’s hairstyle that is refined and dignified. It has class. It has character. It should be a dignified name, so we call it a highball. Like a fine glass of scotch.”

The highball has variations, like the highball twist, the lowball, and the side part lowball. There are braid styles, too, like the rope, the brave (references to Native American hairstyles abound on the site), the angler, and the reverse double-barrel French revolution. (There’s also a post about cornrows, in which Barto wonders if he feels so uncomfortable wearing them because that’s a style usually worn by black men.) There’s an entire thread for finding these styles all in one place.

A year after the site launched, the duo finally launched their Hair Ties for Guys, which you can buy on the site or through Amazon for $12 for a pack of four. This might be the only situation in which there is not a female markup (dry cleaning, haircuts, etc.). A packet of five similar plain black Goody elastics will run you a mere $5.99 at Target, if you’re willing to wade through a little hot pink branding.

The two started out by reviewing what was already out there on the market. “Man, there’s a lot of shitty hair ties out there,” Healy says. The pair combed through fabric stores and started making prototypes. It took four rounds of development until they had a product they were satisfied with. They also finally made that original commercial that launched the whole idea in the first place. It’s a goofy ad clearly inspired by that viral Dollar Shave Club ad from a few years ago.

The first round of designs, which Healy calls V1, have names like the Shockers (lightning bolts), the Yah Mons (Jamaican-inspired), and the Up All Nighters (drinks). Due to an overwhelming amount of requests from customers, the pair just released a second round of designs that include a pack of plain black bands and other solid colors. Healy says that since they launched the new collections, monthly sales have tripled. The most popular design right now is the Adios Banditos (Mexican-inspired) which has sold out about half its inventory since December. They’ve shipped hair ties to all 50 states and to 45 countries.

Healy says he and Barto are on track to make The Longhairs a full-time job. They have plans to launch a full men’s haircare collection, in addition to the hats they already have that feature their logo, a pair of scissors tied up with a cord. From a bit of a distance, I thought the logo looked a little phallic (or maybe scrotal is a better word), and Healy was a bit nonplussed about this when I brought it up, though admits that a few people have said that. But he loves it, and so do other Longhairs, including one who emailed them asking if it was cool for him to get it tattooed on his shoulder. “We said ‘Fuck yeah, dude,’ and he came down to San Diego. This is not a little tattoo. It’s nine inches long on his shoulder,” Healy says. (Check it out here, along with the rest of The Longhairs’ delightful Instagram, which features images of Chewbacca, Ian McKellen as Gandalf from the Lord of the Rings movies, and other longhair icons.)

While celebrity men don’t seem to be embracing the longhair lifestyle much now, especially since their most visible proponent, Jared Leto, cut off his hair, Healy thinks it’s a growing trend. He points to the increasing number of athletes, especially in the NFL, who have long hair. “Look at the big headliners like Clay Matthews and Larry Fitzgerald. There are dozens of others,” Healy says. “Musicians are a huge segment. And if you look on TV, these shows like Vikings and Sons of Anarchy.”

One regular-guy longhair is Joseph Knowles, a.k.a. Reddit’s best dressed man, who we interviewed here a few weeks ago. He was the one who told me about The Longhairs when I called him to chat about his, ahem, “epic flow.” He’s recorded a podcast with The Longhairs and will be working with them to help increase their social media visibility. He was happy to share his hair routine, as a seasoned longhair.

Knowles, 26, is a full-time physiotherapy student, and he works a series of odd jobs that all allow him to have long hair and a beard. One is on the maintenance crew at a golf course (“I basically dig holes for a living”), and he also works at a youth center with kids who are 13 to 18 years old and call him “Jesus” or “Thor.”

Finding products was a process, and Knowles credits his girlfriend with helping him a bit. He also discovered the joy of salt spray after spending the day at the beach. “I was like, ‘Oh, sea salt actually does stuff to your hair.’ I liked the way it looked and I didn’t even know they sold products like that.” His current routine is to wash with Dove Mens 2 in 1, then spray Got2b salt spray in it, put it up in a bun (he’s fine with the term “man bun,”) let it dry for a bit, and then take it down. He finishes it with a Gatsby hair cream, which is a Japanese brand he buys in Asian supermarkets in his neighborhood.

Knowles’ preferred hair tie is one his girlfriend bought him at a local drugstore called Stylize: No-Slip Grip bands. Presumably, he’ll get to try some Hair Ties for Guys now that he’ll be doing projects with The Longhairs. He says he likes to wear his hair up because otherwise it sticks in his beard “like Velcro,” but lately he’s been leaving his hair down. “It’s about minus ten [degrees], so I forego a scarf and just wear my hair down.” He’s pretty zen about it all and will no doubt have lots of advice for budding Longhairs.

Gen Z is apparently embracing long hair, too. “The biggest indication to me is the number of little guys with long hair that we are encountering. By little guys, I mean under ten years old, or even anyone under 18 — a lot of high school guys,” Healy says. “There are more and more parents who are letting their sons grow out their long hair because they want to.” He says The Longhairs have received emails from at least a dozen moms about their sons’ long hair, with questions about how to take care of it, how to deal with bullying, and just to thank them for information.

“You should be able to grow your hair however long you want and no one should give you a hard time about it. That’s our position,” says Healy. “We also say to guys who can’t grow their hair long, you can still be a part of the longhair lifestyle, what it means and what it’s about. It’s kind of the idea that you don’t really care what other people think. You can still be a longhair, because longhair lives in the heart.”
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This article first appeared on RACKED

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​Let’s face it, nobody wants to age, but it’s inevitable. With aging comes one of a man’s biggest fears: HAIR LOSS!

Around 30% of men have started losing or have lost their hair to a great degree by the time they reach the age of thirty – and YES, you can blame your genes or hormones.

You might think that hair loss is an embarrassing problem that can negatively affect your professional and social life.

However, no matter how you feel about it, don’t try to cover it up or make a comb over. DEAL WITH IT and find a way to make it work for you.

Step 1: Find a Haircut That Works for You

Talk to your hairstylist and try to find a haircut that works for you and your receding hairline.

We recommend 5 different haircuts that can turn your losses into gains:

1. Slicked Back Hairstyle: many men draw attention away from thinning hair on the top by slicking back the hair which adds a light lift at the roots.

2. Messy Side Parted Hair: is typically good for those with longer hair that is starting to thin out.

3. Short & Spiked Haircut: ask your hairstylist to cut your hair on the top to give it an edgy and spiky look. This cut creates space between your locks and therefore the attention will only be focused on where your hair has been spiked.

4. The Crop Haircut: if your thinning hair is not bad enough to pull off a buzz cut, getting a close cut with top texture is a nice choice.

5. The Buzz Cut: if you have the face shape for a buzz cut, this cut is a cool and sexy solution for thinning hair.

Step 2: Use the Right Hair Styling Products

Go find the right styling products for your hair.

A nice wax or powder will add structure and volume to your hair. Keep in mind that a little goes a long way. Using too much can make your hair appear too oily.

Step 3: Don’t over wash Your Hair

Your initial reaction to thinning hair might be to wash it more often. You may believe that washing your hair more frequently is good for the remaining hair, but this is not the case. Over washing can cause hair damage and further hair loss.

Depending on your hair type and texture, keep your hair washing down to 2-3 times a week. Apply the shampoo into your wet hair, massage gently for one minute, rinse thoroughly with water and repeat if necessary.

Step 4: Build a Beard

There are many reasons to grow a beard.

Firstly, if you choose a suitable one that’s well maintained, it shows that you’re fashionable.

Secondly, a beard will help bring the eyes of others down and away from your hairline rather than towards it. Remember to pick a beard that suits your style and face shape.

Step 5: Keep Up a Positive Mind

Be confident! Life is not all about hair. Don’t waste your time on negative energy. Try to focus on the positive things in life and be grateful for what you have.

Focus on the things that you’re satisfied with, such as the shape of your body or the colour of your eyes.

 
Read more about how to style it here: Haircuts For Men With Thinning Hair (Receding Hairlines)
 
Well, how do you want to deal with your thinning hair?    Let me know at your next appointment.  
 

This article first appeared on SlikHaar

​Hair tends to be a complex topic, especially when you’re first getting into care for your own. There are a ton of products on the market, but when it using those products, some of us really are in the dark. So, when you want to use the best hair dryers and salon quality products, where do you go? How do you get help? The first piece of advice that we want to give you is very simple: don’t experiment. You might be tempted to, and it might seem like a good idea, but seriously, don’t do it. There are resources out there that can help you to get on the right track, and sometimes, the products themselves give you clues.

Find Online Advice for Hair Dryers and Other Products

Looking for advice online is a great start, and there are plenty of internet forums that will give you exactly what you need. Usually you would want to seek the advice of experts from these forums, but you could in fact find that there are others who have quality advice that will help you to get your hair under control. As always, beware of faulty advice, especially if you’re online and you have no idea where it is coming from. Keep in mind that you can use Facebook groups, as well as forums to get your information and keep your hair looking great.

Talk to your Hair Stylist

This is a matter of course, but it’s also something that far too many people overlook. Yes, you can talk to your stylist and they will be able to tell you whether or not the products that you are using are actually right for your hair. After all, who would know better than your hair stylist? More importantly, they can look at your hair and determine whether or not you’re making any serious mistakes. This is probably the best method to use, especially if you happen to have access to a hairdresser. If not, then you might be left guessing, or you might be reliant on the advice of others, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

Check the Products You’re Buying

When you’re buying professional hair dryers or anything else of that nature, you look at the brand name and you make sure it’s of quality construction. When you’re buying hair products, you need to do the same thing. Look at the ingredients and make sure that there is a decent concentration of the main one. In addition to that, you will want to make sure that you’re buying products that are right for your hair. Look at the label on the bottle and see what type of hair it is for – for example you’re going to have some that are good for curly hair, some that are good for coarse hair, and so on.

There is a difference, so make sure you’re paying attention! Choosing the wrong products can have adverse effects for your hair and may even cause serious damage. In the best case scenario, you’ll simply end up with coarse and unmanageable hair. These are three of the best tips that we can give you for taking care of your hair, and properly using products. The most important takeaway here: don’t be afraid to talk to people and ask for help. The future of your hair is in your hands and the products that you choose to utilize.

This article first appeared on HSI Professional

Hair problems happen, you know it’s true, and you’re here looking into some of the most common solutions. We can’t say we know what you’re going through exactly, but we can say that we’ve seen almost all of the possible problems, and we’re well equipped to handle them. There are as many problems as there are people in the world, and they don’t all call for the ionic ceramic flat iron. Some of them are simply going to call for you to break out a few of the solutions that we’re going to list for you below. Let’s start with some of the most obvious.

Limp Hair
The Ceramic Flat Iron Won’t Help with This One
This is something that will happen if a person has thin hair and they’re using too much product. This, unfortunately, adds weight to the hair, so pay attention to what you’re using, and use a clarifying shampoo at least once per week to get rid of the product buildup. In addition to that, you need to make sure that you’re reducing oil on the scalp. One of the other tricks that you can use, is to apply conditioner to the roots of your hair rather than the scalp.

Fix the Frizzy Hair
If you have a problem with frizzy hair, there are a few different items that could have led to it. For example, they might bovver-styling (Cockney slang for bother. I would interpret as rough-drying) and drying their hair using a higher heat setting. You will need to figure out how to use a blow dryer properly, which means pointing it down at the hair shaft. At the end, use the cool air setting to close the cuticle and lock in the shine. It’s an extra step, but it’s well worth it to get the hair you want – without the frizz.

Clear out that Greasy Hair
This is probably one of the biggest hair problems that people will face, and it can definitely become more than a bit frustrating. The first thing that you need to know, is that greasy hair is most often caused when the scalp overproduces a natural oil by the name of sebum. This is where it gets a little tricky because you would think that washing your hair would get rid of the grease. Actually, you want to skip a few washes as this will help to slow down oil production. In between washes, you can keep your hair in good shape by using a dry shampoo or conditioner. You can also use powder products that will soak up excess oil, and when you’re ready to wash, use a light weight shampoo.

Those Pesky Split Ends
If you’re a regular user of ceramic irons, then there is a good chance that you’ve been warned about split ends. Well, yours might not actually be caused by your flat iron. In fact, they can be caused by over-processing and even over-styling. Your dead hair cannot repair itself, so if you have a split end, it’s just going to travel further up the shaft, and if you’re dealing with split ends on a regular basis, then you should consider getting a regular trim. In fact, you should do it every six to eight weeks, combining that with a deep conditioner at least once per week. You may need to do a bit more upkeep, but it’s well worth it. As you can see, there are quite a few hair problems to consider, and if you’re dealing with any of these, then it would be within your best interest to figure out how to solve it and most importantly, how to do it right.
 
This article first appeared on HSI Professional

It’s no secret I colour my hair, but I do like to pretend that this is my natural hair colour. When my regrowth starts to show, I have some tricks to try and hide it.

One of the problems I had on my last trip was traveling for so long; I missed my regular hair appointment – 1st World Problems, right? I did think about seeing someone else, but I’m pretty loyal to my hairdresser Stevie English and just couldn’t trust a stranger with my hair.

By the end of my travels I had to get pretty creative with my hairstyles. I also found some products that are so helpful in hiding regrowth as well.

Here are my tips on hiding your regrowth and pretending that this really is your natural hair colour.

1. Embrace hats and accessories
I love hats, and that’s a good thing because they’re your first weapon to hide your regrowth.

Whenever I wear a hat, people often say to me “oh, I could never wear a hat; I’m not a hat person.” But I think you just haven’t found the right hat yet.
It sometimes takes a little bit of confidence to wear something different on your head. I say embrace it and just go for it! Find a great shop and try on a bunch of hats until you find the one that you really like. I promise it won’t be the last hat you buy.

I found this hat on my travels and it’s a souvenir I bought home from Cuba. I wear it every summer now and I always pack it when I’m travelling. It came in as a real lifesaver to hide my hair growth at the end of this trip.

One problem I do find is that you sometimes have to remove your hat when you go inside. But if you choose a smaller hat, you can leave it on anywhere. And if you’re worried about hat hair, I have a great trick I’ve shared here.

2. Learn how to wear a scarf
If you saw my humidity hairstyles post, you saw I recommended packing a silk scarf to wrap around your pillow. That scarf can do double duty and create an awesome hairstyle for you as well.

I like to try and wear it as a bandana style or wrapped around a bun, turban style. Either way looks great and helps to cover your regrowth.

The best thing about a scarf or a bright accessory is that it draws attention away from your roots and people noticed the accessory instead.

3. Go big
The higher the hair, the fewer roots you can see.

Forget your hair straighteners and reach for your curlers instead.
I embrace my natural curl a lot more once my regrowth is noticeable. That little bit of extra height will hide the regrowth and puts more focus on the ends of your hair.

4. Wear your hair out
I know that as soon as your regrowth starts to show, you want to hide your hair away, but you should wear it out.

When your hair is pulled back, you actually emphasise the root. Instead, leave your hair out and put the focus on the ends of your hair.

Try to remember that you’re noticing your regrowth more than anybody else. They don’t know what you look like straight from the salon.

5. Disguise it
Did you know that there are tinted dry shampoos? Batiste makes a great range of tinted dry shampoos to help hide that pesky regrowth or those greys starting to poke through. It’s a total saviour for those final few days before getting your hair coloured.
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I don’t know about you, but it can seem to me that my hair isn’t growing at all and then overnight it’s like it has grown an inch! I notice the regrowth suddenly and I can’t believe I let it get so bad. I hear myself moaning into the mirror: “I’m sure it wasn’t like that yesterday…”

I hope these disguises for your regrowth save you time and stress, and help you to persevere until you can get your hair back to its proper colour again.
 
This article first appeared on Hair Romance